Sometimes I get emails like this one below:
Kay, please help I need your help. I have been dating this married guy for over two years now. He always says he is splitting with his wife... yet, every time I ask him, he makes up some other excuse about why he hasn’t moved out of the house yet.
I always get confused... how can I honestly help someone scope another man's husband*Smile* Well, I thought I should just go ahead and write about this, just in case there other women out there in a similar situation...
I hear someone saying, " but I am prettier than his wife." he will marry me.
Yeah... You could be prettier than his wife, but he is still married...
You might even think you are prettier, than anyone he’s been with...
You might even think none of the women he’s known have what it takes to scoop him from his wife...You know you can dazzle him with your cute smile, style, sex eyes, complexion and that long Brazilian hair...
Hey! Even your friends think you are so beautiful and pretty. Why wouldn’t he?
You believe you are extra special and different...
Well, maybe you are...
But the man you are dating remains the same... MARRIED to the wife he claims to hate so much... keeps having children with her... keeps going back home to her leaving you empty, confused and lonely. In fact, he dumped the last girl friend because she kept nagging him about getting married and leaving his family and children for her... She even made threats that she would tell his wife about their affair. But it still never worked.
The previous one lied to him that she was pregnant, to keep him... but he still didn't marry her. Seriously, what makes you think you are different? The one previous to that thought he wanted to marry her just because she met his Mom... his sisters and friends... but he still never did.
And he will never forget that one who call called every 3 minutes and left over 50 text messages all in one day, because he refused to leave his wife...
Ladies broke or not! LEAVE these naught married men alone
Don't reduce your value by dating these men, who don't respect their marriages. Oops! Did I say that? Yeah, I did. When someone cheats on his wife, he really doesn't respect himself or his marriage. Period! So even if you manage to steal such a man from his wife...you are still marrying a man who cheats on his WIFE and if you end up being that wife... he will cheat on you too... does that make sense? Are you getting something out of this?
He has used other women and you are not an exception...
He’s not going to care that you are prettier, funnier, smarter, sexier, or make more money than his wife. That may capture his attention at first, but that is not what will make him leave his wife...
You may be EXCEPTIONAL, but you’re not the exception.
So STICK WITH THE PROGRAM of being a Proverbs 3:15 woman... Know your worth. And act on that. Unless you do, you will join the list of females who don't value themselves and forget that Christ PAID a very HIGH price for them.
Don’t assume anything...
You don’t assume just because he is on separation, he is ready for a new wife. No, he is still married... Separation is the same as married.
You don’t assume just because he’s pursued you, he wants t leave his wife...
You don’t assume just because he told you he loves you, it means that he hates his wife...
You don’t assume just because he let you spend the night, that he will leave his wife and move in with you...
You don’t assume just because he says he wants to more kids, that he wants you to bear them... remember he has a wife.
Don't bank on a married man. It's not a good investment. Such men cannot make you feel special or valuable...yes, I am here to EXPOSE THEM right now. You see, a guy who is considerate and dedicated and committed to his wife and children would never dream of having a girlfriend.
Sorry... the truth hurts. But it's better! Than being lied to...
Ladies...Remember:
Handsome is not enough...
Rich is not enough...
Posh car is not enough...
Job title is not enough...
Popular with women is not enough...
What is enough? Being able to cherish you and you ONLY...find a SINGLE man.
You might even think you are prettier, than anyone he’s been with...
You might even think none of the women he’s known have what it takes to scoop him from his wife...You know you can dazzle him with your cute smile, style, sex eyes, complexion and that long Brazilian hair...
Hey! Even your friends think you are so beautiful and pretty. Why wouldn’t he?
You believe you are extra special and different...
Well, maybe you are...
But the man you are dating remains the same... MARRIED to the wife he claims to hate so much... keeps having children with her... keeps going back home to her leaving you empty, confused and lonely. In fact, he dumped the last girl friend because she kept nagging him about getting married and leaving his family and children for her... She even made threats that she would tell his wife about their affair. But it still never worked.
The previous one lied to him that she was pregnant, to keep him... but he still didn't marry her. Seriously, what makes you think you are different? The one previous to that thought he wanted to marry her just because she met his Mom... his sisters and friends... but he still never did.
And he will never forget that one who call called every 3 minutes and left over 50 text messages all in one day, because he refused to leave his wife...
Ladies broke or not! LEAVE these naught married men alone
Don't reduce your value by dating these men, who don't respect their marriages. Oops! Did I say that? Yeah, I did. When someone cheats on his wife, he really doesn't respect himself or his marriage. Period! So even if you manage to steal such a man from his wife...you are still marrying a man who cheats on his WIFE and if you end up being that wife... he will cheat on you too... does that make sense? Are you getting something out of this?
He has used other women and you are not an exception...
He’s not going to care that you are prettier, funnier, smarter, sexier, or make more money than his wife. That may capture his attention at first, but that is not what will make him leave his wife...
You may be EXCEPTIONAL, but you’re not the exception.
So STICK WITH THE PROGRAM of being a Proverbs 3:15 woman... Know your worth. And act on that. Unless you do, you will join the list of females who don't value themselves and forget that Christ PAID a very HIGH price for them.
Don’t assume anything...
You don’t assume just because he is on separation, he is ready for a new wife. No, he is still married... Separation is the same as married.
You don’t assume just because he’s pursued you, he wants t leave his wife...
You don’t assume just because he told you he loves you, it means that he hates his wife...
You don’t assume just because he let you spend the night, that he will leave his wife and move in with you...
You don’t assume just because he says he wants to more kids, that he wants you to bear them... remember he has a wife.
Don't bank on a married man. It's not a good investment. Such men cannot make you feel special or valuable...yes, I am here to EXPOSE THEM right now. You see, a guy who is considerate and dedicated and committed to his wife and children would never dream of having a girlfriend.
Sorry... the truth hurts. But it's better! Than being lied to...
Ladies...Remember:
Handsome is not enough...
Rich is not enough...
Posh car is not enough...
Job title is not enough...
Popular with women is not enough...
What is enough? Being able to cherish you and you ONLY...find a SINGLE man.
If you are reading this and you are dating a married man...my prayer for you today is that the Holy Spirit will set upon your heart the fear of God and set you free from that triangle relationship. If you continue dating these married men , don’t ask me anything concerning revelations about your mate...Oh trust me, I am taking this very seriously... you have no idea how the devil is using women like you to destroy marriages and leave children in a state of confusion when a father suddenly disappears in thin air with the so called girlfriend...
Please start praying for a MIRACULOUS and ACCELERATED healing for your emotional wounds, especially the pain you have caused in another woman's life. I want you to get ALL that God has for you... a good husband. If breaking up is going to be hard for you, I have a solution. I have just finished writing an email entitled" How to Turn your Break-up into a Break-Through" it's a must read. Take one step at a time, you are not going to die, this is good for you... a new beginning to a clean life.
For the cheating husbands... my prayer is that this message was received in the spirit that it was given" smile" love and faith that joy and peace will be restored in broken marriages. Some that I know of, some that I don’t. The devil is after the men... he wants to abuse you, confuse you and leave you empty from your bad decisions. Be a man of God and you will succeed on so many level and not attracting generational curses for your careless behavior.
Don’t let the devil in your marriage. Remember, greater is he who is in you than he who is in the world (I John 4:4) and what God has joined together, let no man (or evil entity) separate (Matthew 19:6). Let NO ONE divide, force apart, disconnect… Marriage was supposed to last until death parts you.Comments/Advice kayrose.academy@gmail.com
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