These days we have more male gold diggers than women and there ain't messin with no broke women. With that said...ladies, take a deep breath and let's break this down. But before you start reading this article, make yourself a large cup of tea, sit comfortable and be ready be for some real talk with Kay Rose... it's time to get in touch with reality because such men can leave you broke and heartbroken.... don't just get clouded by your emotions because you love your guy like crazy. It's sad to see a lot of hard working sisters being trapped in the name of love. I hope this article will help you understand what type of relationship you have and I hope by the time you finish reading this article, you will be able to figure out if you are a sugar mama, a male gold digger or a relationship bread winner.
Ready? Let's go! Here are a few signs he is dating you for your money....
#1. He always has Emergencies...whenever you talk to him, you always hear things like, "my car keeps heating up" ... I think I should take it to the garage. I just hope it's nothing big because I just paid for my exam fees ." Or he will talk about not having enough for rent, airtime to you etc...and by the time you know it you are writing a check or going to the ATM to make a withdraw.
#2. He Knows your ATM pin number by heart but he has a problem memorizing your phone number or remembering your birthday. A real man should be concerned about building a good relationship with you than withdrawing cash from your account day and night. That's not the kind of love you want.
#3. He is always forgets his wallet or ATM card at home when you go out on dates. A real man should always have money to pay for meals when you go out. If he is that forgetful, he might forget who you are and mistake you for someone else.
#4. He always asking for stuff from you like buying clothes for him and sometimes even food.
#6. He has his eyes on expensive gifts, he won't take a book for a gift. He gets angry when you get him a cheap present.
#7. ATM card is always stuck in the ATM machine... but he has expensive taste.
#8. He asks how much you make within the first 10 minutes of the initial conversation.
#9. He only calls when you get paid and is more than happy to spend quality time with you without being forced. That's a clear that he is got his eyes on your pay check not you.
#10 He Adores your car and your job more than you
My quick advice: If you are dating a male gold digger, right now ask God to give you the strength to end it, today OR stop giving him any money at least for 6 months and see if he sticks around. But believe it or not! Such men never change, and he will never be the loving husband that you deserve...he will just dry you up emotionally and financially. You deserve better than that!
Just big sis looking out for you...that's all "smile" because some of you ladies are also looking for the gold instead of true love. If your dream is to have a rich man come along and sweep you off your feet ...or still waiting for that retired 75 year old white man to pay your way to Europe . Then continue reading because it's time for you to become a Goal digger. We all love to rock in the trendiest clothes, designer handbags and shoes... but sadly for some of you all these expensive gifts come at a price. If that describes you, please take the time to seriously think about the heavy price you have to pay for your fantasies. Sleeping around with men in exchange for is simply cheapening yourself. Why would you “sell your soul” to maintain a constant supply of luxury goods so that you can temporarily feel good and feel empty right after rocking your new handbag? You can fake smile all day long... but you know when you are alone at home...you go right back to your tears and feeling lonely. Sometimes, you can't even sleep because you are so ashamed of your lifestyle. That's a sign, it's time for you to stop! You see, gold digging is cruel and a ruthless business... using your body in exchange for money and gifts can leave unseen scars that you will be dealing with for the rest of your life and by then your car will be sitting in the garage...
Get your priorities straight: Right now, right this minute, Now! Smart girls are Goal diggers, not gold diggers...they dig their own gold by working hard, going to school...please don't waste any more of your time doing things that aren’t building value in your world. Start living on purpose and with intent. So come on, let’s start digging for some gold, set some goals and get closer to success and happiness
It's time to form your own goal digging company called" how to get a job for myself company" ladies you can live life to the fullest without sacrificing your body. I am not here upset you... I am here to empower and encourage you to believe in yourself and most of all in God because with Him nothing is impossible...Luke 1:37
This is not the year to do nothing... this is the year to do something. This is the year to achieve your goals, this is the year to be a goal digger! So dig in deep, get going, make those goals happen. This is that year...2015 A year for you to occupy your seat of honor.
God cares enough about me you! And He want the best for you...just because you lost your job doesn't mean your life is over. God wants to do something special for you, but you have to surrender to Him...surrender ALL! See, sometimes when something doesn’t work out that is God literally reaching down from heaven saying don’t go that way, go this way instead. So decide right now what you want out of 2015 and decide right now how you are going to go about getting it. BUT…don’t get too busy chasing your goals that you forget to enjoy the ride.“Proverbs 16:9
Ladies! We can do this...we are the Deborah's of this generation. Let's do some amazing things for ourselves...build powerful businesses and start creating employment for people. Say No to Hand-outs! Say No to gold digging! Say No to being rescued by an old 95 year old white man. And start Goal digging...become the first female largest employer in the world...with God on your side hun, nothing can stop you...just go for it! It's time to start making your own cash with some dignity.
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