Hun, don’t assume a man is interested because….
He keeps staring at you...
He smiles or winks at you...
He dances with you all night long at a party or club...
He enjoys conversing with you online/phone...
He is always nice to you when you chat ...
He helps you change a tire...
He compliments you on your hair/dress...
He buys you a drink at the club...
He enjoys having sex with you...
He promises he will visit you...
He gets your phone number...
He promises he will call/email...
He texts you or chats with you on what's app/facebook.
He took you out on a date once...sometime last year...
Face the truth: NONE of this is PROOF he is interested in you...believe me, let me explain!
The ONE and ONLY REAL PROOF is if he plans dates and courts you, as in becoming a real SUITOR.
Not somewhere in the past or maybe in the future, but in REAL TIME as in right now.
THEN he warrants being talked about to your friends/family.
Till then, he is NOT interested, so MOVE ON...
Lovelies you need PROOF of interest in order to invest your emotions and time. The False signs are not proof, for if they were and convincingly so, tons of women wouldn’t be writing to me, asking me if a man is interested.
Take two men: One of them is doing everything flirty except asking you out...he sending you hearts on what's app, what's app flowers but nothing in real life. The other one does nothing BUT ask you out. Which one is interested in you? Which one is a time-waster? That's your homework.
Men do what they do, there’s nothing you can do about changing that. The only thing you have control over is what yourself...be true to yourself. And avoid wracking your brains trying to figure out what’s behind a guy’s behavior.
As long as he isn’t asking you out on a date, there’s nothing to wonder about. Especially whether you like him, whether his behavior means certain things, and above all, especially if he’s got a girlfriend. And if he does have a girlfriend or wife and still asks you out, just say sweetly, “Sir,when you are single, ask me again.” that's it and keep it moving. Time is money they say, why waste it!
You want a man who shows interest that is worthy of your time. Next time, don’t bother looking at a guy like he’s got potential UNTIL he asks you out. Because UNTIL then, you are only assuming, guessing, speculating, and even fantasizing. That’s a lot of time spent on someone who hasn’t even invested in you in the same way hun.
Even if a guy finally takes you out on a date, he may still not be in love with you. Women have a built-in need to cement relationships. That is why the overwhelming majority of hardcore loners are men, whether they are rich or homeless people. Knowing you are wired differently, all the more strict should your definition of a man’s interest before you allow your feelings to take over you
KRA WIFE SCHOOL
Many wives have heard the following statements from other women:
" I hardly see my hubby except when he is asleep."
"He never spends time at home."
"He is nothing but a stranger to me."
"He is always out with his friends."
"He never eats at home."
Listen! If you ask a man why he stays away from home and his
family...he might be surprised to to even think he has been absent that many hours:-)
Because he has many reasons he can think of for not rushing to go home from his office.
Here are a few reasons:
Oh Well, maybe it's time for you to enroll the Wife School.
Don't be like other wives who are unknowing with their behaviour forcing their husbands to sleep or spend countless hours at the office...Sometimes it can be as simple as forcing your husband to work like a slave so that you can get your Gucci bags...hair etc.while your husband is experiencing hell on his job...but you want him to bring you millions at home...well, that's just one of them...they are plenty reasons why your husband may spending more hours at the office.
Wives! Change your ways...when your husband opens that door let him find:
An indication that you missed him
A warm, welcoming smile (btw,calling a man a dog the moment he steps at your door is a big mistake. Guess what! Whenever he wants to come home to you, that's what he will always remember)
Shower him with token of kindness...treat that man like a king that he is. Ati "fyakale!" Hun think twice about that! That's why most men have left their mansions (and their gorgeous wives) and ended up in some shanty compound with plain Jane... just to experience appreciation, respect, kindness etc. Divas of Lusaka (especially) change your ways. Seek God and become better wives. Sometimes, let the mirror alone and look on the inside.
Pajamas ready for him (secret here is...he an't going out once he gets home...get it!!"wink" yes what other reason would you have his pajamas ready(these things are easy...men are like babies remember?:-) you have to learn how to handle them with ABC gloves.
A clean bath towel...let take a bath and relax. If anything give one! He deserves it, he was out making money for you. You need to make him feel appreciated. Hello!
I have a busy day today. More later. Interested in the following programs: Wife School, Dating Secrets, Marriage Magnet, Dating after 40, Self Discovery, How to attract the right mate...send me an email to: kayrose.academy@gmail.com To support or learn more about my organization GDA/BSOG please contact the Country Director Mr. Baruch Mulenga @ 0977-564911
Oops! I forgot to say this: It is great to have a good conversation with a guy and get along well with him. However, if he hasn't shown and proven to you that he is into you as in wanting an exclusive relationship with you...please do not go by how you feel about him, but go by what he has done to pursue you and if it's NOTHING then drop him. The only thing he can do is send kisses online and nothing else... This is something anyone can do and therefore, does not win him any special privileges. I mean back off and leave him alone... don't be his entertainer, let him him step up before you can give him your attention. Do not grant any man bonus points just because he has a conversation with you on what's app, phone or whatever means...having skype dates does not count. If a man doesn’t become a SUITOR, he is not worth having feelings for him.
Don’t hint anymore. He already showed you he has zero interest in you and he has already shown you by not respecting you enough to take you out on a proper date... he doesn't even think you are worth having coffee with. Always remember: your FEELINGS are the WORST indication of whether a guy is worth your time. ONLY HIS ACTIONS are indicative...get it? I hope so...
I strongly urge you to change your entire approach by joining other singles like you in the KRA exclusive club( only for paid members) with members all over the world.
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