So, you want to know how to tell if a girl likes you? I am writing this article because a lot of guys are completely lost when it comes to reading the CORRECT signs. I know it can be confusing:-) she flirts with you one day, but when you text her, she doesn’t message back... sometimes she answers your texts, but she never wants to meet up. Sometimes women can be confusing, that’s for sure, so read on to find out how to decode us!
If there’s one thing that you guys all want to know, it’s this: how to tell if a girl likes you.
Men aren’t always great at reading signs...and trust me, it’s not your fault, sometimes woman are really hard to read, and trying to decipher “chick vibes” can leave you completely confused and totally lost.
But it’s really not that complicated. With most women, there will be certain things that she does, words that she says, and texts that she sends that are her way of sending a clear “green means go” or "red means stop" message to you.
So if you’re really into her, here are 9 signs you need to look out for if you want to take it to the next level. And don’t worry if she’s not doing ALL 9 of them, 4 or 5 of them is probably enough to know she’s into you, and it’s time to make your move!
1. She Answers Your Texts
If you’re texting a girl and she is not taking days and weeks to answer your text messages, she’s probably into you. Girls will only answer texts quickly once or twice if they don’t like you, so if you are getting quick, rapid responses, those quick texts are pretty strong signs she is into you... Sometimes if a girl isn’t interested in getting to know you, she will give vague, short answers and always try to seem busy (I’m washing my hair or I am cooking types of things). Sometimes she won’t even respond at all (yep, I’ve done all of those myself…sorry guys).
2. She Holds Eye Contact
When you talk with her, does she look you in the eye? Better yet, does she look you in the eye and then look away when she realizes she’s been staring at you for too long? She definitely has feelings for you. Eye contact is a great way to detect flirty vibes, especially if she seems super conscious about it... People don’t hold eye contact with people they don’t find interesting, and if she is being self-conscious about how much she stares at you, it means she’s fully aware that she can’t look away...
3. She Texts You, Just Because
Wondering how to know if a girl likes you over text? Check the content of her messages. Is she only messaging when she wants money for rent...airtime...transport, or just to answer your texts, or does she message you, “just because”? If you start receiving texts from her asking how your day was, it is a clear sign that she is interested. For example, “Hey, how is your day? My day is busy but I wanted to drop you a quick note to say hello", is not particularly flirtatious, but is definitely her way of letting you know you’ve invaded her thoughts.
4. She Asks You Obvious Questions
Have you suddenly become the new Google for a certain girl over the last couple of months? If she is texting you questions, or giving you a call to check details on things that she could just as easily Google, or even might know herself, then she is searching for excuses to talk to you. This is especially true if her question starts of a whole series of text conversations that have absolutely NOTHING to do with the original question. If she is interested in you, any excuse will do to start a conversation.
5. Her SMS’s Are Never Visually Boring
If a girl like you her text messages are packed with smiley faces and look visually appealing? Visual stimulation is important for girls, and texts are any easy way to do this. If your what's app inbox is flooded with cute looking messages and a whole array of smiley faces and stickers, she might be trying to capture your attention. Hearts and kisses might not be your thing, but us girls, we LOVE them.
6. She Makes Up A Pet Name For You
If she suddenly starts calling you by a pet name, or nickname, she is trying to claim you as her own, while also being a little flirty...Hi super star or Hi Prince.
7. She Mimics You
Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery, it’s true, and if she’s into you, she may not even realize she is doing it. How to know if a girl likes you? Watch her movements. Does she copy what you say when she talks to you? Or, even develops an interest in the kind of movies or music that you like? It's a sign she is into you.
8. She Teases You
Little boys tease little girls by pulling their hair at the playground, but it doesn’t stop there. Adults tease too (or at least they should!). Want to know how to tell if a girl likes you? Observe whether she teases you, and how she does it. A girl who isn’t that into you either won’t tease you at all, or will go the other way and be plain mean (in which case you should avoid her ... never chase people who don't want you). You can always try pursuing her over and over, but don’t invest too heavily in a girl who doesn't want you... It is a recipe for disaster. A girl who is interested in you will tease you every chance she gets, but never about anything hurtful.
9. She Tells You She Likes You
This may seem obvious, but if a girl straight out tells you that she is interested in you than she is either an awesome girl who doesn’t play games, or she has been sending you the other signals we talked about for aaaaages and she is sick of waiting around for you to notice. If she comes straight out and says she likes you, take her at her word...it takes a lot of bravery to do that!
So there you are, the 9 different signs you should keep an eye open for! But just remember, every woman is different, and so is their approach. If you’re still unsure, try matching up her behavior with some of the signs, and if she’s doing more than 3, chances are, she is attracted to you – if she’s doing all 9, congratulations, that girl is yours (at least for now!) So, stop emailing me to ask me how to tell if a girl likes you and go out there and get that girl!
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Kay Rose Owner of Kay Rose Academy and Founder of GDA/BSOG teaches women/men how to effortlessly attract the right man/woman and have a secure, close relationship or marriage they want. To learn more about the KRA programs or learn how you can connect with a woman/man’s heart at every stage of your relationship or marriage send an email to kayrose.academy@gmail.com and
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