This article may seem very looong... But! It's a breakthrough article... Trust me, you will love it!
I know. It's hard to admit that you are a love addict. But maybe it's time to check yourself into rehab. But before you do, I have a question for you... Is your entire day decided by how your partner treats you that day? Have you noticed that you spend far more time worrying about the well-being of your boy/girl friend than you do about your own? If your answers to these questions are ‘yes’, then keep reading, you are about to find out something really interesting.
But wait a minute! Before I forget... let me take a short break and Congratulate the BSOG member of the year 2015 Eric Mweetwa and GDA member of the year 2015 Pobanga Yandishi... not forgetting other outstanding members of GDA/BSOG Andrew Malama, Kutemba Kufuna, Agnes and Baruch. Truth be told, these kids are doing an amazing job of spreading the word of God on Purity and transforms broken lives. What GDA/BSOG International should be introduced in every school in Zambia. Yes indeed!! Scratching my head, I wonder what really makes news these days...an event of a shameless woman walking the runway with no bra or a young woman making porn videos of herself? Seriously! No thanks. Rescuing and transforming broken lives of our future leaders should get your attention and make news on every TV station.
I know, we think this generation needs more condoms. No, they don't! But we can continue making condom manufacturing companies richer... let's not be so naive about how the system works. We can do better than that! This generation needs RAW truth... how hard is telling the TRUTH as is... right from the bible? Why do we have to cut corners? It's the truth that sets people FREE forever John 8:32... not encouraging teens to have sex indirectly. This Gen need the Word of God to be engraved on their hearts so that they can also pass it on to their children's children... not watching porn and making porn movies right in your homes. It really breaks my heart, especially when I get calls from teenagers who are scared, terrified and ready to commit suicide because they just found out that they are HIV positive or tired of being molested by their own family members... silent prisoners, free and yet bound in their own luxury homes. Going to the best schools have everything, but scared to death and can't sleep at night. If you think this is fiction, think twice because it is happening right here in Zambia.
But the question is, how many kids can GDA/BSOG International educate under a tree? How many words can we type on what's App? If Malawians, Indians, Zimbabweans and South Africans etc... want to be part of this life changing organization, then you know we mean business and we aren't backing out! Not now or in the near future. Truth be told, everyone has to be involved. Remember, it takes a village to raise a child. So how can we work together to save this generation? What are you gonna do about it? Bury your money and dig out in 2078 or invest that money in a program that your kids can benefit from...I have done my part, started an organization GDA/BSOG to ENCOURAGE Purity... do your part too. If Uganda did it, we can do it too! Or should we just accept it as a tragedy and move on with our lives.
Hint: The best leaders are not guided by GREED, they are guided by the best Leader that has ever walked this earth and His. Name Is, Jesus! Jesus was touched and moved with COMPASSION by other people's problems and misery... You too, you have to be sensitive to other people's misery... don't just be moved by your own drama or problems in your life. Does that make sense? I hope so, especially in a nation declared as a Christian nation.
Okay,Okay, Okay... let's get started with the signs of a Love Addict...
1. You Believe That You Can Only Be Happy If you are in love.
Many love addicts feel this way and it is the most basic of many signs you're a love addict. You feel incomplete as person without having a girl friend or boy friend by your side that loves you and are unsure how to function as a single person. Your identity is lost in a relationship and you cannot happily go through the day to day activities of life without feeling empty or lonely...making endless calls and texts day/night.
2. You think it's ok to stay in Bad Relationships.
Love addicts are genuinely afraid to be unattached, they will often stay in a relationship that is so negative rather than being alone. They may even justify staying with an emotionally, physically or financially abusive partner by telling themselves that the devil you know is better or being in a bad relationship is better than not having a relationship.
3. You are unable to take time off after a failed Relationship
Love addicts usually refuse to feel pain and learn from their failed relationships instead they run into another man's arms right after the break up. They have no time to heal before jumping into a new partnership. So if you are emotionally unable to take time for yourself and time to mend after a breakup, it is one of the biggest sign you're a love addict.
4. You Are Often Needy and Clingy in a Relationship
Love addicts find it so hard to feel loved without someone to telling them how amazing they are. If your partner is not available physically and emotionally to give you the devotion you are seeking, you become increasingly needy and clingy. You require more attention and more affection from your partner than a non-love addict and this will usually begin to drive them away, which only increases your neediness.
5. You Jump from Relationship to Relationship as the Infatuation Wears Off
Love addicts can quickly get bored after the initial infatuation wares out and use it as an excuse to jump quickly into another, new relationship this is a major sign that you may have this form of love addiction. You may be addicted to large doses of "love hormones" that flood the brain at the start of a new romantic relationship and is just a serious a form of love addiction.
6. Romantic Love Is the Most Important Part of Your Life.
Relationships with friends and family will suffer when you are in a romantic relationship, as that becomes the most important thing in your life. Even when you are not involved in a romantic pairing, the only thing that matters is, becoming attached again so it is hard to concentrate and work and difficult to maintain personal growth and friendships. Nothing else is as important as finding or keeping love.
7. You Take More than Your Share of Responsibility in a Relationship.
If you are a love addict, you may shower the source of your addiction with gifts, even if they go unappreciated. You do most of the work in your relationship, including planning trips, dates etc. You apologize for all arguments, even if they are not your fault to avoid being abandoned. Unfortunately, love addicts often chose partners that are emotionally unavailable to return the affection and adoration.
CONCLUSION
Don't ever use your partner as a “Fix” you know I am talking to you, especially if at first your relationship starts out like being in heaven...so intense and wonderful...then suddenly it ends up in hell. Don't ever confuse what is happening in your relationship with love. Most love addicts confuse the drama of a relationship with the devotion of the other person. Just because there is a lot of excitement and drama taking place does not necessarily mean your partner is devoted to you. Truth be told: You don't have to be in a relationship to feel WHOLE.
To learn more about GDA/BSOG International... Call the Country Director, Mr. Baruch Mulenga @ 0977-564911
Are you single? Are you in a painful and unfulfiling relationship? Are you painfully married? Or are you in a relationship that's going nowhere? If you answered yes to any of the three questions Send an email to kayrose.academy@gmail.com
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