Oops! I already have something else to talk about so forget about the title for now and talk about something else. We can talk about the above title next week....I know black bra goes with everything ... but it shouldn't be worn daily, a bra is like underwear needs to be changed daily. Guys, I am talking to you too...those black boxer shorts need a break. I am just saying:-) Anyways, we will finish this next week.
No Need to hurt forever...give your heart a break!
Just because your last relationship didn't work out... it doesn't mean you should now live in the forest alone, surrounded by heavy barbed wire and make yourself impossible to love or to be loved. Have FAITH in GOD...are you single because you are happy being single or because you are scared to love again? I ask because when you get burned too often, have been let down by dates or relationships too many times, or have suffered from breakup that has left a bitter taste in your mouth, it is easy to build a wall around your heart. I mean, we all get disappointed, but be stuck up in that! Of course, I’m talking to those who are still interested in dating and finding someone, even if you are single and manage to be happy.
Life gets busy and there are so many things that happen, sometime even bad things. But there is no need to deny yourself a chance for a relationship just because someone disappointed you, are you that scared?
If life is a journey, make it interesting... including your very attitude towards love. Believe you will be okay, no matter what. Just learn to take necessary precautions in being aware of the red flags that signal what isn’t boyfriend material. Truth be told: You don’t have to make a guy your boyfriend just because he shows interest. Certainly know you don’t dream of a wedding just because a guy has taken you out three times.
What happened to enjoying men’s company? I’m not talking about hanging out with some guy and getting attached without any sign of interest from him. That obviously leads to disappointment and wastes your time as well....I’m talking about when you’re out and about, stay friendly and relaxed. Laugh easily. Be open to possibilities. Don’t stick to rigid standards that limit your chances...
By the way, let me say this:
Never envy any girl or woman who has a guy dangling off her arm...
I mean have you ever felt this way? Watched couples walk by. You wonder why them and not YOU?
You start having doubts about your attractiveness. You start being down about yourself and look for flaws in you. This makes you feel worse and you become discouraged and unhappy...
You notice some of these women are not even decent. They go to clubs every weekend...But you always have these questions in your mind....How did that happen? What am I doing wrong and what are they doing right?
I know that can be It’s frustrating and demoralizing. But listen, and listen carefully:
YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHAT SHE HAD TO DO TO GET HIM, or WHAT SHE HAS TO DO TO KEEP HIM.
Truth be told: Maybe she probably had to do a lot of chasing and tolerating unwanted behavior. And here is what comes with some of these relationships...I think it's worth knowing this:
Pursuing a man means sleepless nights.
Pursuing a man means worrying about where he is and what he’s doing.
Pursuing a man means being jealous.
Pursuing a man means being insecure.
Pursuing a man means being putting your life on hold while you wait for the phone to ring.
Pursuing a man means you don’t have a life.
Pursuing a man means getting frown lines and gray hair.
Pursuing a man means going into panic mode and having mood swings.
Pursuing a man is desperate behavior.
Pursuing a man feels bad and is unhealthy.
Lastly, the very person you are jealous of HOW DO YOU KNOW SHE ISN’T….
Sick of being ignored because he’s busy playing video games?
Lonely because her husband is addicted to porn and prostitutes?
Crying herself to sleep at night because he always cheats on her?
Working day and night to provide for the family because he’s too lazy to get a job?
Having fights with him because he spends money on beer and women leaving their bank account at zero balance?
Paying for his up keep so he doesn’t run off to another woman?
Wishing her kids would never marry a man like her husband?
Stuck doing all the planning romantic trips, including buying flowers for herself and paying her own dowry?
You have no idea the what she had to do to get her man and the thankless task she has to do to keep him ... a job that doesn’t reward her anything close to what she dreams to have.
She struggles to keep it all intact, just so she can show the world she is somebody’s woman...married.
So, if this isn’t what you want for yourself, hold your head high and appreciate where you are today. Enjoy your life and TRUST God that the right man will show up in your life at the right time.
DATING 101
How to Act on a Date
What is a D-A-T-E ?
Dating is not NOT hanging out.
Should he pick you up or should you meet him halfway?
What if he’s a stranger you met on the internet, whats app, facebook?
What if he doesn’t have a car and it’s more convenient with public transportation?
What if he lives in another town or city or country?
Whew. Now that’s out of the way, but let’s continue:
What should you wear to your date?
How should you act?
What should you talk about?
What if he asks about your past relationships?
What if he talks about sex and porn?
Should you bring your bank card and cash?
Should you offer to pay for him?
Should you offer to split the bill?
What if he wants to take you somewhere else after the date...like the club or his house?
Should you go?
How long should the date last and why?
What if he prolongs the date?
What if he asks you to spend the night?
What if he doesn’t mention going out again?
Should you go on group dates?
Should you order extra to go food for your friends and family member? Ok, let me answer this right now...
It's a NEVER. Put it on your never list.Just because he offers to pay for your dinner it doesn't mean that he wants to buy dinner for your entire family members too. Cut it out!
What if he wants to double date?
What if he’s THE ONE and you know it in your heart and soul?
Don’t make wild guesses...enroll in the dating class.
You are in a relationship...
Or because you are not serious about in being a real Catch, you’ve just been hanging out with him.
Or even sleeping with him.
Or even being his nice friend wants you when he is bored.
Or maybe he doesn’t know you exist at all, you hear from him once a month.
You’re into him, that’s for sure.
But the question is, are you on the right track?
Can you take this relationship to the next level?
Or turn things around if they go super sour?
Can you bring up the relationship issue?
Why can’t you ask him to be your boyfriend?
What is the Danger Zone?
Why should you believe in the Power of NOT having Sex before marriage?
What is the Checklist for Boyfriend Potential? Do you have it?
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