Now before you get the wrong idea about the title of my article, lower your eyebrows and trust me, you will learn something that can dramatically change your marriage. Hint: If you are not married this isn't for you... and please don't try it on somebody else's husband.
Ladies!! Start Your Day Our Right. The difference is clear the way when you wake up in the morning and put on that cute lace bra and panty set. Wearing something pretty under your clothes helps you feel better about yourself. Here is a little secret, when you feel better about yourself, you automatically become a better, happier person, a better wife, and mother... with the confidence that shines from the inside out. And when you feel good about yourself it shows!! Because you not worried about anyone seeing your torn underwear...
Here are a few reasons why some men like lingerie...
First of all, let me say this: If the world is enticing your husband day after day, then you need to supply that need in the bedroom or someone else will. Men love the Looking... 2 Samuel 11:2 says it all! One evening David got up from his bed and walked around on the roof of the palace. From the roof he saw a woman bathing. The woman was very beautiful, and David sent someone to find out about her... men are visual! So do I think that sexy lingerie in the bedroom between a husband and wife is wrong? Absolutely not.
Lingerie says...
“Please look at me” Simple four words that every husband that he is secretly dying to hear from the wife he loves. Ladies your husband loves your body and he loves looking at it. If you are used to in the dark! It's time to step it up and soak in all the beauty that is radiating off of you! Turn on the lights and let your husband enjoy those sexy curves and just enjoy the view.
Men Love the Excitement
Lingerie says “Hubby, I am excited to be with you tonight. ” Behind every man’s desire for sex is an equally strong desire for his wife’s pleasure. They really want you to feel good. Making you feel good makes them feel great! When you put on lingerie you are in essence showing him you are sexually desiring him, which is a huge way to boost your husband’s self-esteem and show him you desire him!
Men Love unwrapping the Gift
Lingerie says, “I am all yours baby.” Your husband knows that you aren’t dressed up like that for another man (I hope you are not) other than him and that you are doing it simply for his enjoyment. That is a huge turn on. Knowing that you have thought about what your husband would like and then you not only bought it, but made time to wear it is a huge gift. Your GOOD husband (a bad one might not appreciate your efforts) knows that you are subconscious, he knows that you might not love your curves as much as he does, and he knows that you are making yourself vulnerable for him. It is a huge and awesome gift! It makes a man feel very special and is one of the biggest reasons why they love it!
Men Love the Wow
Lingerie says, “Wow!” One of the most exciting things about lingerie is the potential of the wow factor. When he least expect it you can surprise him with a wow! Seeing you in lingerie when it was totally unexpected has the ability to make his eyes pop! It is exciting, enticing and awesome!
So next time your husband hints on how nice it would be to see you some good looking lingerie try not to roll your eyes. Consider all of the amazing things you can say all with one sexy piece of lingerie.
KRA School Homework
#1. Please take a few days and study Proverbs 5:15-19 and Song of Solomon 4:1-5:1 and then have a special time together to share with each other how these passages relate to your thoughts and feelings on this issue.
#2. Lay all your underwear on your bed and anything with holes in it or too old put it in the trash. And I know, black goes with everything, but it's time to mix it up with colour! It's time for something new...
#3. Please don’t let the sun go down on your anger. Never go to bed angry...
#4. Never ever use intimacy to manipulate your husband, especially withholding...
#5. Keep your bedroom free of distractions such as clutter, TV, laptop… Keep it as your special place, make it clean and inviting...
#6. The most important rooms in your home are the kitchen and the bedroom. If you make these two rooms a priority, keeping your husband in mind, then you are well on your way to a happy marriage...
#7. Do invest in some nice sleepwear, lingerie, nice bras, lacy undies, massage oils, scented lotions... (if you are confused or need help in this dept, I am just an email away..I can help!)
#8. Keep things spiced up and special for your husbands. :)
#9. Surprise him...Wear it under your clothes and then just take them off and “BAM” there you are. You can also hide it in the bathroom and change while he is in the other room and then pull a “Honey, can you come here for a second?”:-) You have to be creative ladies! Or you can get all dolled up before he gets back from work...and let him find you cooking (make sure the kids are not home or they will think you are crazy)
Conclusion
It’s easy to be caught up in wearing torn underwear to bed (especially if you have been married for many years) and end up not feeling so good about yourself, and the way you look. Being a busy mom, isn't an excuse for not taking care of yourself... the bible says a wise woman builds her home an... (Proverbs 14:1) That doesn't mean that you have to wash dishes all day long. It simply means you have to come up with interesting ways to spice up your marriage. That includes doing things that make you feel good, remember you are a woman, and a sexy woman too! Listen Hun! No matter what shape or size you are, you are beautiful, and it’s time to bring your sexy yourself back. It feels so good to wake up in the morning in some pretty lingerie! In my opinion, I think Christian women should consider wearing lingerie! However... and Pul-Leze make that a big “However" I am not encouraging Christian to wear trashy lingerie that comes with them tie me down handcuffs... you are not a stripper, but a godly wife. Let's keep it classy ladies. Wearing lingerie does a body good! If you can't afford lingerie, start by wearing nice satin feminine night gowns that remind him that you are a woman... It's time to turn the lights on!Let your husband see you...
No comments:
Post a Comment